Your Sexuality Rises Up From The Earth

She finally admits to me why she has come to see me: “I’ve never had an orgasm. My body just won’t cooperate. I feel like such a fake.” These are the words of literally hundreds of women who have spoken to me over the years. And they speak for thousands – if not millions, more. Every time I hear this from a woman, this conviction that there is something wrong with her sexuality: I feel a pang through my heart – if only she knew what her sexuality is really about. And then I set to work, as I do with you here now.

There is a basic misunderstanding we have in our world that our sexual energy is something personal and it expresses as a personal orgasm for those who are lucky enough to have the knack of it.

The truth is this: Sexual energy is not personal at all. It is the pure power of LIFE. It comes up through the earth and enters our bodies from a source way beyond the boundaries of our skin. When we open to sexual energy in this way, rather than insist that it is some personal event that we desperately have to strive for – then the orgasmic energy of all of life starts to ripple through us.

Close your eyes and follow me in this guided visualization:

With your eyes closed, imagine that you can look to the inside of you and down into the center of the earth.

Take your attention all the way down the dark layers of the earth right to the molten core of her.
Feel the aliveness of her, right there, in that pulsing core of fire.

Imagine that fire as pure sexual energy rising up – through the dark layers of the earth, through all the teeming life forms growing under the earth, life growing through the earth, in the earth, and coming up, through the soles of your feet, as pulsing, throbbing aliveness.

Let the fine currents of electricity coming from the core of the earth rise up through your feet, up your legs and right into your vagina/Yoni.

Let the heat of her enter as sensation right into your sexual core.

Relax, and simply feel it, like a radiant sun.

Then let that energy rise up from your yoni, through your body.

Let it set your body alight with power that does not belong to you as an individual and yet connects you to all that you are – as the bigger body of life.

Be gentle with yourself. Even if you only had the faintest glimmer of what I am suggesting here, take note. Write about it in your diary. Track that movement in your sexuality. Be more interested in this new discovery, this whispering voice, than in the louder, more familiar voices that bombard your experience from outside and from your past.

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Beyond the Porn Star: What Radiantly Feminine Sexuality Is and How Our Culture Overrides It.

Women everywhere are realizing that there is more to their sexuality than they have been conditioned to believe by their culture. I have come to see this in working with thousands of women across the world – that we have some deep, inherent intuition that our sexuality is a profound gateway to living as the feminine in this world.

This whispering internal voice comes up against the blatant proclamations of the media. While teaching in England recently, I came across a popular magazine that had an article about how to have better sex. The author of the article recommended that sexual partners watch 10 minutes of pornography before intercourse. As substantiation for this suggestion, the author quoted research results that couples who watch pornography before intercourse are 58% more aroused.

Now let’s have a look at the assumptions underlying this piece of sexual teaching going out to the masses:

• Scientifically measured increase in sexual arousal is an indication of sexual success. In other words, human beings are similar to mice or rats in that an increase in their biological sexual functions (such as secretion of sexual juices) results in an increase in sexual success. If we can do it like rabbits, we are at the top of the sexual food chain.

• Sexual arousal results in good sex. The reality is that sexual arousal stemming from watching porn is coming entirely from your head. Associations in the subconscious mind come together to result in the release of neuropeptides such as dopamine, our body’s natural cocaine. This causes a rush of excitement that can make us feel a temporary heroism and bravado to “do it”. But very soon, that excitement drops, and we are left feeling empty.

• The ultimate model of the sexual feminine is the porn star. Imagine the scene. Woman sits with her partner watching porn to get ready for sex. She sees the extreme arousal happening in him as the porn star goes through her moves. Inside him, every move and visual code (e.g. the size of the breasts, the fact that she is wearing an apron or a nurse’s outfit or high heels and red lacy lingerie) is triggering neurological associations which result in biochemicals rushing to create an erection in the man. The woman looks at this and gets the message: If I want to turn him on, I’ll have to model myself as closely as possible on the porn star.

No wonder we live in a time where women have started to believe that being a woman sexually is all about performance: what you look like, whether you have an orgasm and whether you give your man one.

Women have bought into this idea that sex is about performance. We have been living our sexuality through an outdated masculine model that is all about drive, success, results and satisfaction.

But just under the surface, from the depths of our soul, we can hear the urgent whisper of a deeper truth. This truth shines through the awe-filled eyes of the men that truly love us. And the voice says:

Woman, you are the body of love.

Beauty shines from deep inside you.

You are pure radiance – and nothing you put on or change about your body will alter that.

Woman, you are an embodiment of the feminine.

SHE is calling you to discover your natural, juicy, divine sexual aliveness.

Nothing you have ever done – and nothing that has ever been done to you – can keep you from realizing the exquisite fragrance of your true sexuality.

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